{"id":422,"date":"2020-08-22T13:31:37","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T13:31:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/?p=422"},"modified":"2020-08-22T13:31:37","modified_gmt":"2020-08-22T13:31:37","slug":"craving-change-seeking-the-familiar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2020\/08\/22\/craving-change-seeking-the-familiar\/","title":{"rendered":"Craving change, seeking the familiar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">I &#8216;ve been seeing familiar faces around town on my morning runs.  Fellow expats from Luxembourg, friends from Seattle, even a friend from California I haven&#8217;t seen in decades.   None of these people live here, or have any reason to be in London.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, I&#8217;m not actually seeing people I know &#8211; just people who bear a passing resemblance.  My subconscious is seeking the familiar &#8211; and when it can&#8217;t find it, it creates it.  Patterns in the noise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While part of me is looking for the familiar, mostly we&#8217;re drowning in it.  We mark time with mundane tasks: the weekly grocery shop &#8211; elided this week in favor of delivery to resupply on some things heavier than we wanted to carry home.  The alternating biweekly visits from the cleaning service and saturday morning &#8220;hoovering&#8221; of the apartment.   Weekend visits to our neighborhood cafe for breakfast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I expect <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/32d79c87-1ade-4b63-8d14-7af1a553d963\" target=\"_blank\">Tim Hartford is right<\/a> &#8211; I won&#8217;t likely remember many details about what I did during the pandemic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From that perspective, work has been a welcome distraction.  Between the changes brought on by the pandemic, and my moving onto a project predominantly based in Seattle, my work days have shifted to a &#8220;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.paulgraham.com\/makersschedule.html\" target=\"_blank\">makers schedule<\/a>.&#8221; Very different from the last two-and-a-half years.  I have something of a habit of fixing foundational things that other people ignore, or work around, and there&#8217;s been plenty of opportunity for that of late.  It&#8217;s not flashy or sexy, but making dozens of my colleagues more efficient and productive is, from my perspective, heavily leveraged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After successfully feeding ourselves twice a day for just shy of six month, we&#8217;ve started occasionally letting someone else cook.  We&#8217;ve <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/deliveroo.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\">Deliveroo<\/a>&#8216;ed an occasional meal from local(ish) restaurants.  Adding Chinese and Indian to our rotation has been a welcome change, but I quite miss the &#8220;out&#8221; part of dining out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In other &#8220;non-news,&#8221; there&#8217;s been no response yet from the DVLA regarding my license application.  Despite it feeling like forever in fact it&#8217;s only been two weeks since I shipped them off my BRP and paperwork.  The messaging on their website respectfully requests I leave them the hell alone until at least three weeks have passed.  I email&#8217;d them anyway &#8211; and got the automated response I expected &#8211; &#8220;we&#8217;ll get to you in due course, now cool your heels and wait your turn.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hate waiting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I &#8216;ve been seeing familiar faces around town on my morning runs. Fellow expats from Luxembourg, friends from Seattle, even a friend from California I haven&#8217;t seen in decades. None of these people live here, or have any reason to be in London. Of course, I&#8217;m not actually seeing people I know &#8211; just people &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2020\/08\/22\/craving-change-seeking-the-familiar\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Craving change, seeking the familiar&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-london-calling"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=422"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/422\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":423,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/422\/revisions\/423"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}