{"id":2151,"date":"2026-01-28T12:16:42","date_gmt":"2026-01-28T12:16:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/?p=2151"},"modified":"2026-01-28T12:16:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T12:16:42","slug":"not-with-a-bang-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2026\/01\/28\/not-with-a-bang-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Not with a bang&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Early in my career I had an uncomfortable couple months that taught me that the correct number of times to decide to leave a company is <em>once<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes you can get away with twice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More than twice is almost always a bad idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So having decided (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2025\/07\/14\/long-and-winding-road\/\">again<\/a>) to leave Axon, I don&#8217;t expect there to be <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2025\/08\/27\/no-boom\/\">another do-over<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I did some thinking while we were <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2025\/12\/22\/the-actual-stuff-of-nightmares\/\">traveling<\/a> over the holidays and came to realize that while I still want to be doing <em>something<\/em>, I was less and less confident that what I was doing was that something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/60097435-quit\">Annie Duke<\/a>, professional poker player turned author, describes quitting as a prediction problem. You should quit, she argues, when you&#8217;d bet that your future <em>not<\/em> doing the thing is going to be better than your future continuing to do it. Sh argues that it often feels like we&#8217;re quitting too soon &#8211; but that if you wait long enough to be <em>sure<\/em> quitting is the right move, you&#8217;ve probably waited too long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the time we got home I&#8217;d thought about it as much as I thought thinking about it could help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All that was left was to place a bet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Early in my career I had an uncomfortable couple months that taught me that the correct number of times to decide to leave a company is once. Sometimes you can get away with twice. More than twice is almost always a bad idea. So having decided (again) to leave Axon, I don&#8217;t expect there to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/2026\/01\/28\/not-with-a-bang-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Not with a bang&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-the-universe-and-everything"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2151","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2151"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2151\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2208,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2151\/revisions\/2208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oubliette.org\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}